This week, let's look at a story from the Jewish tradition.

A story about a young woman, a belief she inherited, and what happens when you realize that gratitude and wanting more were always meant to live together.

Let's dive in...

There once was a young woman who grew up in a small trading town.

Her father was a merchant. He had a small shop at the edge of the market and it gave the family enough.

And that was the word he used most... We have enough.

"We have enough," he would say whenever an opportunity came and went.

"Wanting more than enough is just greed wearing a different name," he would say...

She grew up hearing that. And the way he said it... with such certainty... it never occurred to her to question it.

So she didn't.

When she was older and felt a pull towards something bigger... a thought, a dream, something she couldn't quite name clearly... she'd hear her father's voice.

Wanting more is greed.

And naturally, she'd let it go.

She told herself she was grateful. That she was content. That she didn't need more than what she had.

But there was always this quiet feeling underneath it all...

Like a door inside her that kept wanting to open... no matter how many times she closed it.

But she never spoke about it or shared it with anyone...

Until one evening she found herself sitting with an old woman at the market.

A woman who had traveled widely and seen much.

The young woman didn't plan to say anything. But something about the silence between them made her open up.

She told the old woman about the feeling she'd been carrying her whole life.

About her father's words...

About the guilt she felt every time she wanted something more than what she already had.

The old woman listened without interrupting.

Then she looked at the young woman for a long moment and asked quietly...

"Tell me, when a candle burns... does it do the wrong thing by wanting to burn brighter?"

The young woman looked at her.

"A candle was made to give light," the old woman said.

"Every bit of light it gives is not greed... It is simply the candle becoming what it was always meant to be."

"Gratitude doesn't mean to make yourself small. You can be grateful for the flame you already have... and still let it grow. One does not cancel the other. They are and always were meant to live together."

The young woman was quiet for a long time after that...

She thought about her father. About all the opportunities he had turned away with such peace on his face.

She had always admired that peace.

But sitting here now... she wondered if it had really been peace.

Or if it had been fear. Dressed in the language of gratitude for so long that even he had stopped knowing the difference.

She thought about her own life. About every dream she had quietly put away.

She had called it contentment. She had called it enough.

Or maybe... it had just been his fear living on inside of her.

The old woman stood up slowly, preparing to leave.

She paused for a moment... and said quietly...

"The candle does not choose between gratitude and light. It simply burns. As fully as it can. For as long as it can."

And then she walked away…

The young woman sat there alone for a while longer...

She thought about what the old woman had told her...

And she thought about every dream she had put away so quietly that she had almost forgotten she'd had them.

She realized that she could want more...

That she could reach for more. And still be grateful for everything she already had.

That those two things had never been in conflict.

She had just never seen it in that perspective.

Most of us were taught that wanting more means we're not grateful for what we have.

And somewhere along the way... wanting more became something to feel guilty about.

So we do one of two things...

We chase more... And we feel guilty about it.

Like we're being ungrateful for everything we already have.

Or we stay small. Call it gratitude... Call it enough.

And carry that feeling of a life that always felt just slightly out of reach.

Because that's what inherited beliefs do.

They don't always make themselves known. They just quietly become the rules we live by. We don't question them because they don't feel like beliefs... they feel like the truth.

So a belief planted early... wanting more is selfish... becomes the invisible ceiling we live under for decades.

But gratitude and reaching for more are never in conflict.

Gratitude is about genuinely being thankful for what you already have right now... for this breath, for the smallest of things, for this day, for our family, for everything around us.

Reaching for more is about honoring where you're going.

And gratitude is what opens that door. Because when you're truly grateful... you stop reaching from a place of lack... it changes the energy you move through life with.

You can be deeply grateful for what you have... and still want more.

And just like the candle that doesn't have to choose between being grateful for its flame... and wanting to burn brighter... neither do you.

That's all for this week. I hope this story reminded you that gratitude and wanting more were never the opposites you thought they were... and that you were never meant to choose between them.

Thank you to everyone who's been replying and sharing your thoughts.

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If you missed last week's edition: The Cost of Holding Onto Anger

See you next Sunday.

— Manifest Chronicles | The Mindset Behind Change